Tag Archives: Boundaries

Life Coach Reid Walley – Marriage 101 – Study Together; Stay Together

By Life Coach Reid Walley | Published: July 25, 2010

Life Coach Reid Walley – Study Together; Stay Together – Hewlett-Packard from Reid Walley on Vimeo. “Study Together; Stay Together” presented during HP Northside Toastmasters meeting at Hewlett-Packard in Roseville, CA, July 22, 2010. Invited to be a guest speaker by Kevin Levine (VP Education).

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Saying Yes Can Lead To Misery

By Life Coach Reid Walley | Published: April 13, 2010

Sometimes, misery comes from saying “yes” to something/someone you should have said “no” to. Then you have to back out of it and reestablish your “path.” Sometimes family and friends will make you feel guilty, be angry with you, make fun of you or ignore you until you “give in” to something you really should [...]

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Life coaching – Emotional happiness is in harmony with Boundaries, Oversight, Consequences methodology

By Life Coach Reid Walley | Published: February 13, 2010

My dear friend, Candace, as a mother toward her daughter, is the perfect example of a focus on emotional happiness through the harmony of “Boundaries, Oversight and Consequences.” During a fashion shoot I was producing, Candace stopped right in the middle of it and addressed her daughter’s boundary-breaking behavior with loving and firm oversight. It [...]

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Life coaching – Expectations, Boundaries, Character

By Life Coach Reid Walley | Published: February 13, 2010

Expectations have nothing to do with your Mac booting up or not, or your significant other being honest or not. Expectations have no effect on either of those outcomes. A person’s integrity has nothing to do with your expectations of them having integrity. Boundaries, not expectations, are what need to be set in a relationship, [...]

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Personal life coach – Saying No: “Mean” or “Meaningful”?

By Life Coach Reid Walley | Published: January 19, 2009

Life Coaching: There’s a “mean” way – and a “meaningful” way – of saying no. One is derogatory; the other is life affirming. A “mean” no is probably not the truth. Whereas a “meaningful” no can be transformative, balanced, Zen. It’s a no that means the request doesn’t align with your life’s plan/path. The no [...]