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Crappy Relationship ROI? Stop Getting Ripped Off!

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You changed for somebody else – you invested all that effort. Then they stormed out and you’re left with an “empty” version of yourself. You shoved your square peg through a round hole and come out damaged and unrecognizable.

Your return on investment (ROI) sucks!

Now begins the long-ass journey back to… yourself. This stage of the process has you starting at minus zero. Because the investment you made wasn’t actually for you – it was for someone else. And you got left behind with nothing to show for all of your hard work.

When you change for someone else, they’re the one that leaves with all of your changes. It’s like shopping for new clothes that you never get to wear. And when you get dumped you don’t even get your clothes back, you end up in tattered rags.

Change is good, but who keeps the ROI? Stop getting ripped off. Invest in yourself. Invest in your own growth, confidence and success.

Why Do I Attract Crazy People?

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“Why do I attract crazy men???? Please someone, tell me why this happens??” A friend of mine recently asked this question on Facebook.

She may have asked this question in jest, out of frustration, or she may even be looking for an honest answer.

#1: Don’t offer somebody your phone number if you don’t want them to call you. Especially if you don’t want to go out on a date and have sex with them. It’s okay to exchange business cards if it’s for business/professional reasons.*

#2: Don’t hand somebody your car-keys if you don’t want them to drive.

#3: Where the fuck are you meeting these freaks? In other words, where are you hanging out that freaks can easily interact with you?

*You do have a business/professional reason for meeting people, right?

It takes a “real” man to admit…

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It takes a “real” man – a man with self-respect and self-confidence – to admit that he finds a woman attractive and is also willing to be supportive of her choice of husband/boyfriend.

It’s completely normal to want more than “just being friends” with someone we’re attracted to. We want sex, too. But that’s the age-old problem: most people only see the sex, but place no other “value” on the friendship.

Here’s the normal routine at a dance club: boy gets up nerve to ask cute girl to dance. Cute girl turns him down. He sulks back to his guy-friends and describes her as a bitch. I’ve heard it a thousand times from my gal friends. All he saw in the cute girl was sex and nothing more – no value, no worth.

It takes a “real” man to admit…