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Since your mind is the creator of “the box”, thinking outside of the box requires giving your mind permission to commit heresy against itself. Think of heresy as a tool, instead of a barbed-wire fence.
How do you see outside of yourself if you’re using your own eyes to see? Spot the cracks. Rock climbing uses a method for reaching higher: spot & spike. Look up, spot a crack, place and drive a spike (piton). Carry a hammer Have a pocket full of spikes Spot the cracks “In climbing, a…
A friend is heartbroken after a breakup: “I had so much hope. I believed that love would conquer all.” The life-hack that I’ve learned the hard way is: “Loving yourself conquers all.” Share this post: Share on Facebook Share on X (Twitter) Share on Reddit Share on LinkedIn Share on Email
Carrie: “I want to kill all the other drivers on the road while I’m driving to work. I hate the situation I’m stuck in at work!” Had a good chat with my friend Carrie, who hates her job situation but is afraid of standing up for herself by telling her boss what would be better…
Your religious beliefs is software Your culture is software The way your parents raised you is software What your parents disciplined or rewarded you for is software What you learned in school is software How your teachers graded you is software What you were made fun of by your peers is software What your friends…
You are worthy of showing yourself the same kindness – and importance – that you show other people and other beings. You are worthy of freely and easily bathing yourself with kindness and non-judgement. Being a happier human being is a process of analysis, not self-judgement, self-pity, and self-putdowns. Critical self-analysis is good, while critical…
In 1980, from the rolled-down window of a yellow school bus in Long Beach, CA, a voice yelled, “You can’t pop so stop!” They were right, my dance skills sucked. They were wrong, I wasn’t going to stop. Two years later I was teaching popping at The Broadway Academy of Performing Arts in Carmichael, CA….
