The term soulmate thoroughly implies that I’ll never be happy as an individual being. That I’ll never make a positive difference on this planet as an individual. That I’m always a miserable, lost half that constantly feels half alive – until I find my soulmate. And only then am I actually “alive,” “happy,” and “valuable.”
I call foul on the concept of a soulmate!
I think the concept of a soulmate may be the ultimate limiting factor in living a “full” life! Because the term soulmate requires you to be deficient by definition.