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Is it really so hard just to be nice in the middle of an argument?
If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all, right? Bullshit!
You gotta break the cycle. Say something productive, pro-active – something nice! An argument is just a bunch of “reactions” all linked together. Stop having a re-action and add an action: smile. They’ll never see it coming!
If you don’t have anything nice to say, then say something nice!
Life Coaching: There is a Zen approach to our inner War. A Zen War! Winning without harming, without fighting. It is The Secret of Frustration™ – the secret that How You React IS Your Life™. Frustration holds truths about who you are, who you were, who you can be. How you react IS your life….
My grandpa Ted once told my brother Lance not to get too excited about computers because he didn’t think anything would come of them.
Boy, was grandpa wrong!
How do you persist under the watchful eye of parents, grandparents, teachers, and other “adults” in your life? – when they can clearly be wrong. How do you follow your passion and instincts when it’s sometimes an uphill battle against the “wisdom” of your family, friends and well educated people?
How do you think for yourself long enough to actually make a difference?
~Mark Twain Indeed, be silly! “You’ve gotta’ dance like there’s nobody watching, Love like you’ll never be hurt, Sing like there’s nobody listening, And live like it’s heaven on earth. (And speak from the heart to be heard.)” ~William W. Purkey Share this post: Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on Reddit Share on…
Broach the taboo topics, ask – and answer – embarrassing questions and state your not-so-obvious flaws. Build something of quality. Do the heavy-lifting from the outset. Filter out the flakes, putzes, assholes, haters and control freaks right up front. In other words, don’t drink contaminated water; filter out the crap. Share this post: Share on…
Want fewer arguments, less stress and more peace of mind in your life? Change your thinking from “being right” to “what’s better.” Share this post: Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on Reddit Share on LinkedIn Share on Email
“Great businesses [and individuals] have a point of view, not just a product or service. You have to believe in something. A strong stand is how you attract superfans. They point to you and defend you. If no one’s upset by what you’re saying, you’re probably not pushing hard enough. (And you’re probably boring, too.)”…
