Principle 7: Don't Play Fair

More and more people I know are raving about Principle 7, “Don’t Play Fair,” from “9 Things You Simply Must Do To Succeed In Love and Life” by Dr. Henry Cloud. Excerpts from the opening paragraphs of Principle 7: “In your opinion, what is the formula for destroying relationships? How do you do that? What … Read more

She passively blamed her single status entirely on God

Excerpt from: “9 Things You Simply Must Do – to Succeed in Love and Life” by Dr. Henry Cloud I have seen lives transformed when people begin to adopt the strategy of asking themselves, What can I do to make this better? Miracles have occurred. I recently attended the wedding of a woman who had … Read more

Personal life coach – Saying No: “Mean” or “Meaningful”?

Life Coaching: There’s a “mean” way – and a “meaningful” way – of saying no. One is derogatory; the other is life affirming. A “mean” no is probably not the truth. Whereas a “meaningful” no can be transformative, balanced, Zen. It’s a no that means the request doesn’t align with your life’s plan/path. The no … Read more