I used to cram as much information as possible into my Toastmasters speeches while still meeting the 5-7 minute time-limit. Which meant I had to speak really fast! And speaking fast is super tough, because speed kills. There’s no wiggle room for mistakes, forgotten lines, pauses or letting a phrase “sink in” with the audience. … Read more
I’m a pretty good kisser. But when I’m yelling and screaming at my girlfriend she probably forgets all that. How I “react” is my life. She doesn’t know if she can really “trust” me until she sees how I react under pressure, when I’m angry. Then the story she tells her girlfriends is complete: he’s … Read more
Negative people tend to stand and yell at you through an open door – a door that you yourself continue to leave open. Close the door! You decide where you waste your time. You decide how you waste your time. You decide who wastes your time. Are the situations that you allow to influence your … Read more
Traditional dating has always been a form of slimy used car salesperson’s bait-and-switch mixed with a too-good-to-be-true job interview.
When you die, what legacy lives on in those around you? What legacy lives on for the generation, community, country and world that continues on after you die? What useful tools do you leave behind that can be used, shared and duplicated in the generation, community, country and world once you’re gone?
“I think the most important thing in life is to just go on and find something that you’re passionate about, find something that you love, and fight for that. And not have anybody take that away from you. You can know your limits. But never, ever stop trying to break them. We are stronger for … Read more
Critics can sometimes provide erudite observations about you. And sometimes those observations help to clarify who you are and what your cause is. Listen to criticism, filter out what doesn’t apply to you and search for the golden nuggets within their statements. I was recently criticized/accused of being “inspiration guy.” I have to admit, this … Read more
Breakthrough with Tony Robbins: Frank and Kristen