WIP 001 - GRATEFUL VS REGRET

WIP 001 – GRATEFUL VS REGRET

Sometimes it takes years to realize a relationship in the past had almost all the right stuff. You were too young, or not ready, or the timing was off. Life is a Work In Progress (WIP) and sometimes it takes years to realize “the one that got away” got away because you didn’t appreciate the circumstances … Read more

Love Is A Risk – Do It Anyway

Maybe love – just flat-out 100% pure love – isn’t a risk at all. Maybe it’s the parceled-out, somewhat held back love that’s a risk. I’ve totally done that: where I only released as much love as the other person released. I worried about the “balance” of love so much. I never wanted to be … Read more

Intuition isn't stupid, I am

Intuition isn’t stupid, I am. If I date the wrong person, I’m to blame. I’m the full-on sucka! I have 6 senses to help me navigate all this shit. SIX! If I can’t make a “should I stay or should I go” decision with 6 senses stabbing me in the face all the time, I’m a complete moron!

Crappy Relationship ROI? Stop Getting Ripped Off!

You changed for somebody else – you invested all that effort. Then they stormed out and you’re left with an “empty” version of yourself. You shoved your square peg through a round hole and come out damaged and unrecognizable. Your return on investment (ROI) sucks! Now begins the long-ass journey back to… yourself. This stage … Read more

Customer service – Not just for customers anymore

Customer service is one of the new frontiers for intimate relationships, as well as family and friends. Customer service isn’t just for customers and social media – it’s for your marriage, your business partners, your employees, your vendors, your co-workers, your family and friends. Customer service is YOU being nice to the cashier who’s having … Read more

My marriage failed because I didn't treat my wife as well as I treated my customers

Customer service is for your spouse, too! I take full responsibility for the shitty way I treated my wife, regardless of how she treated me. I definitely would have never reacted to my customers the way I yelled and screamed at my wife. I was always much more careful in how I reacted toward my … Read more

Can My Girlfriend Trust Me?

I’m a pretty good kisser. But when I’m yelling and screaming at my girlfriend she probably forgets all that. How I “react” is my life. She doesn’t know if she can really “trust” me until she sees how I react under pressure, when I’m angry. Then the story she tells her girlfriends is complete: he’s … Read more

She passively blamed her single status entirely on God

Excerpt from: “9 Things You Simply Must Do – to Succeed in Love and Life” by Dr. Henry Cloud I have seen lives transformed when people begin to adopt the strategy of asking themselves, What can I do to make this better? Miracles have occurred. I recently attended the wedding of a woman who had … Read more