The biggest deal breaker is our individual selves, as we, individually, are the reason we get “into” or “out of” most situations. We decide our own happiness or misery.
You decide whether to go on a second, third or forth date with somebody. You decide whether to leave a bad relationship today, tomorrow or never.
You decide whether to respond to the title “sweetheart” or “bitch.”
You decide what you put up with. You, yourself, are the most important deal-breaker!